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I have recently discovered a question that I have been searching for the answer to for many years. The question is a simple one, so I suspect that (like most simple questions) it has an extremely complex answer. The question:
When is it appropriate to ask someone out on a date?
I can't claim any particular competence at dating. If anything, I would claim a particular incompetence at dating, as I have no idea what I'm doing. My dating history totals a single date, probably in late 1988. (And no, it was not with the person who is now my ex-wife.) It was moderately unsuccessful, in that no further dates ever happened.
When is it appropriate to ask someone out on a date?
I can't claim any particular competence at dating. If anything, I would claim a particular incompetence at dating, as I have no idea what I'm doing. My dating history totals a single date, probably in late 1988. (And no, it was not with the person who is now my ex-wife.) It was moderately unsuccessful, in that no further dates ever happened.
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And I do not know Say Anything -- is it a movie, a book, or something else entirely?
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heathen!
Say Anything is a John Cusack movie.
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It's a guy flick. Y'know chick flicks? Yeah. This is a guy flick.
Yeah, the one-up-one-down vote is a bummer. I think I want to amend my original statement to "you want first dates to end in a very clear manner of up-or-down". It's just better if it's mutual, obviously.