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A lot of people I know talk about going to Arisia and seem to thoroughly enjoy it. I have never been to Arisia, so I can't say. However, I have been to two other cons (Darkover (twice) and Balticon (once)), and never much saw the appeal. At the time, I lived close enough to the con that I did not stay in the con hotel.
Am I missing something? Did I just pick a pair of stinkers? I fail to see the appeal of cons, even though as far as I can tell I am right smack in the target audience.
Am I missing something? Did I just pick a pair of stinkers? I fail to see the appeal of cons, even though as far as I can tell I am right smack in the target audience.
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Date: 2007-01-10 02:36 pm (UTC)I still go to Arisia to see people, but it's never had the same feel for me that Michigan cons did. I feel more like a tourist and less like I belong there. Now I feel more comfortable at Boskone, where I hardly know anyone. At Boskone, I actually go to panels and book readings and enjoy it. Guess I'm getting old, ten or fifteen years ago I wouldn't have been caught dead in a panel unless I was one of the panelists.
Maybe you are missing something, or maybe cons just aren't your thing. If you're in the area Feb 16-17, come to Boskone with me and see.
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Date: 2007-01-13 05:31 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-01-10 02:41 pm (UTC)If a bunch of friends or one of your favorite authors is going, then by all means, go, but otherwise, my experience at Arisia toed the line between boring and casually horrifying.
I'm not a fan, I just read the stuff
Date: 2007-01-10 03:31 pm (UTC)Boskone's much quieter. The dealer's room is pretty much all book sellers, and the panels tend to be (IMHO) more interesting and comprised primarily of pros.
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Date: 2007-01-10 03:00 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-01-10 03:34 pm (UTC)Arisia has never really held any magic for me, other than as a "go see people socially that are not usually in the same place at the same time" thing. I've volunteered there, paid for memberships occasionally, and also just done the hallway track and parties. I do like huge events, even if I'm not an integral part of them, so I was always sad on Sundays when everybody dispersed. After awhile, though, it just became a weekend where people weren't doing enough interesting things for me to bother participating anymore.
Even a love of large gatherings and staying in hotels can't make Arisia a draw for me. LISA, on the other hand...
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Date: 2007-01-10 04:09 pm (UTC)Enh. I'd say you're not missing much.
(Note that this year is the wrong year to "drop in" on Arisia, as they moved to a new smaller hotel and are already pretty much booked to their limit.)
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Date: 2007-01-10 04:13 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-01-10 04:13 pm (UTC)It was worth dropping in to see and meet people, though, basically ignoring the con programs.
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Date: 2007-01-10 05:03 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-01-10 11:51 pm (UTC)OTOH, it's certainly less appealing than cons were when I was younger. I used to do a whole lot of conventions and now I only do Arisia, and that only for the people.
I will say that, if you want to try out a convention, Darkover, which is mostly a costume con, isn't a good one if you're not a costumer. I went once and didn't particularly enjoy it.
Balticon used to be fun, but it hasn't been worth my while to go recently.
btw, if you want to try out Arisia some year, let me know -- I tend to get a hotel room just for me, since I like a place to retreat to, but you're as welcome to crash in my hotel room as you are in my apartment (ie, very).
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Date: 2007-01-13 05:33 am (UTC)The only reason I went to either of the cons I've been to is in all cases I knew one of the organizers -- who was willing to get me in for free.
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Date: 2007-01-11 04:29 am (UTC)Balticon used to be more fun; I think they had better panels & gaming.
At any rate, it's worth a visit, I think. We'll be there. ;-)
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Date: 2007-01-11 07:18 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-01-11 01:03 pm (UTC)The best comedic events are usually at after-hours parties/sessions.
I happened to discover that the girl I had a crush on for years was actually on the dating circuit rather than being "already taken" as I previously thought, so I jumped in and we are no married. So I guess I have to give (somewhat reluctantly) some credit to Darkover for helping me connect with my wife.
I did also get a little shopping done - found a print by an artist who does SciFi book covers and liked it enough to buy it at the con.
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Date: 2007-01-11 05:31 pm (UTC)I went to Vericon once, though, and enjoyed it enough that I've been tempted to return - especially since they keep pulling in really neat guests of honor (Guy Gavriel Kay this year, IIRC), and the con's small enough (or at least it was) that it doesn't feel so...impersonal? Also, I enjoy trying new table games, and the games-playing felt like a major part of the con rather than a sidetrack from RPG stuff. And Capture the Flag With Stuff was a trip. :)