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Apr. 21st, 2004 08:38 pmOn the way to school this morning, while waiting for the subway at Harvard, I saw something that made me want to slug one of my fellow passengers. A family: mom, dad, two daughters, maybe 9 and 12, were also waiting on the platform with me. (I'm assuming they were a family, at least.) They were gathered near one of the pillars on the inbound platform. The younger of the two walked closer to the edge of the platform and leaned a bit to see if a train was coming. Her dad, without any warning, reached out and pulled her back by her hair. It took effort to keep from hitting him.
I normally stand at the yellow stripe -- not on it, but behind it -- while waiting for the train. I stand where the front end of the train stops; the family was behind me. The girl's head was not even to the stripe when she was leaning. The train hadn't entered the station at that point; it was merely audible. Her father was close enough to her that he could just as easily have pulled her back by her shoulder if he thought pulling her back was imperative, though given her position, I can't see why pulling her back would have been imperative. He could also have said something to her. Both of those would have been safer -- hair can be slippery! -- and both would have involved a lot less pain on her part. Afterward, as she went back to her sister and mom, she was holding the side of her head where he'd pulled. She also kept stealing resentful glances at her father. Way to go, dad.
I don't understand why this event happened. There might be background here that I don't have, such as the girl being continually rebellious -- though that wouldn't justify her father's reaction for what she did. As far as I could tell, she was being careful and responsible, and got (fairly viciously) punished in public for it.
I normally stand at the yellow stripe -- not on it, but behind it -- while waiting for the train. I stand where the front end of the train stops; the family was behind me. The girl's head was not even to the stripe when she was leaning. The train hadn't entered the station at that point; it was merely audible. Her father was close enough to her that he could just as easily have pulled her back by her shoulder if he thought pulling her back was imperative, though given her position, I can't see why pulling her back would have been imperative. He could also have said something to her. Both of those would have been safer -- hair can be slippery! -- and both would have involved a lot less pain on her part. Afterward, as she went back to her sister and mom, she was holding the side of her head where he'd pulled. She also kept stealing resentful glances at her father. Way to go, dad.
I don't understand why this event happened. There might be background here that I don't have, such as the girl being continually rebellious -- though that wouldn't justify her father's reaction for what she did. As far as I could tell, she was being careful and responsible, and got (fairly viciously) punished in public for it.
